weekend

(I am repeating some of what Kathy has posted but here goes...)
I s/w Mimi on Friday morning and she said Papa ate two pieces of KFC Thursday night and threw up that morning. I assumed his body couldn't handle the grease from the chicken. Then yesterday she left me a message while I was out and said he had thrown up again Sat. a.m. and had blood in his urine due to a kidney infection and had been put on meds. I'm no doctor, but I would certainly think the vomiting is from the infection, not the chicken like I assumed at first. He is also sleeping a lot, probably also due to the infect. Robert called her 5 minutes ago and she said he hadn't thrown up this a.m. but woke up, ate a biscuit, and went back to sleep.
When I called Mimi Friday morning, she brought up James Thrash's call again from earlier in the week. I asked her "What are you wanting to do?" and really didn't get an answer. I said that Papa had specifically said to us he was saving the rest of the land for his children/grandchildren and that she still had money in the cd's from the other land sold. She said (and I quote!), "What CD's?". I said "The CD's y'all opened when you sold some of the land". She said, "Well, there isn't much in there." I said, "Mom, one of them has over $200K in it!!!" I didn't get much response after that, and I called Kathy immediately. I am having flashbacks of Lola and her finances. I told Kathy, we have got to do something soon. I think w/ Fred being an Accountant he could really help us, and somehow we'll have to get a POA worked out.
Also, we are going down there in about an hour, and I am going to ask her what she wants to do when Papa's time does come. If she is wanting to go where Mrs. Roose is then we need to get her on the waiting list. I was planning on going this week, but I have an interview Tuesday (everyone PLEASE pray for me!), and my "female surgery" on Wednesday. I may be able to go on Friday. We need to start asking her what her plan is, whether his time is 3 days, 3 weeks, 3 months, etc. b/c she is terrified of being alone in the house at night and w/ what happened w/ our conversation last Friday, I don't know if she is mentally capable of caring for herself.